When it comes to healing, my approach is:

  • Curated

    Carving out time to take care of yourself can take a herculean effort. I believe our time together should be personalized, not one size fits all. This means I am always available to actively listen, and as needs progress and change my email is always open to check in between appointments.

  • Empowering

    Too often people in the healing and helping profession create a reliance with their clients that makes gaining freedom and independence challenging. My goal is to empower you to take your life and wellness in your hands wherever possible.

  • Intersectional

    Everyone’s lived experience is unique. It is essential to understand how marginalized communities and identities require different support that places a priority on increasing their access to informed care. Disabled, BIPOC, and LGBTQIA+ identities are all celebrated.

Services

  • Massage and bodywork is not a one size fits all experience. Every session both you and I are different, therefore our approach has to be fluid to allow for who you are that day. During a session we will begin with an essential conversation about what your needs are that day. From there we will create our own unique blend of modalities to best support your goals for our time together. Each service can act as a stand alone session, or can be blended into a new recipe each time.

    For those with specific trauma, disability, or sensory needs please feel free to be explicit about what you need in order for my services to be accessible. Low to no touch services can be provided. Communication and Support Partners are welcome. In-home sessions can be scheduled on an advanced/as needed basis.

    Sliding scale options available on a case by case basis with prior approval.

    Modalities available: manual lymphatic drainage, craniosacral therapy, neuromyofascial therapy, swedish relaxation, pre/postnatal massage, cupping therapy, functional recovery, reflexology, reiki/intuitive magick.

  • Our elders are a sacred part of our population, and one that is frequently overlooked. Elder-care encompasses supporting their medical needs, memory care needs, or simple financial and technical assistance. In many circumstances, our elders simply need company. Time where they feel seen and heard, as all people need. I have spent time with many clients at their doctor’s appointments, visiting them in the hospital or nursing home, all the way across the spectrum to sitting with a cup of tea and playing cards or doing puzzles. No matter what your need is, taking care of our parents and loved ones as they age is meant to be a community effort. The time I spend with the elders in my community is precious, and is always geared towards supporting and caring for them as a unique individual.

  • Death and dying in America has become a taboo subject, frequently hidden away and talked about in opaque terms. But for most of human history, death and dying was a family led community affair. Each community had members that knew how to help the dying pass with as much peace and comfort as was possible. Dying happened in the home. Families and children were present and witnessed the rite of passage at the end of life. No matter what your belief system, I want to help you return the power of the end of life to you. This may look like helping you talk through your individual wishes for the end of your life, holding your hand, sitting vigil in the night so you can get some sleep, or coaching your loved ones through their grief processes to feel as comfortable as they can participating in someone’s death. I can also provide interactive classes on what home funerals once looked like and help you incorporate chosen elements of your family history into a death journey. Death comes to everyone, but each death is a unique and beautiful process that should be celebrated and grieved with loving support.

  • Having a child with any disability or exceptionality is not something that anyone is ever fully prepared for. All too often you are simply sent home from the hospital with a gorgeous new baby and no reference for how to take care of them. The process of discovering a disability or exceptionality is full of nuance. And where that child needs support will fluctuate as they enter different stages of their development. Learning what their experience is like and how it differs from yours often takes help. And then recognizing what kind of accommodations are necessary to access the full possibility of their environment takes a lot of creativity and advocacy. I strive first to become your child’s friend, to play with them in the ways they like to play and communicate how they like to communicate. From there we can work together to give them tools to feel successful in taking care of themselves and advocating for their needs. Sometimes this means attending meetings at school, supporting them during outings or at clubs/sporting events, or simply being there for them at home as a friend and confidant.

  • The human experience is built on a foundation of reflexes, from the earliest days of an embryo reflexes begin to develop. These reflexes create a complex relay race handing off one after the other to make you who you are. Our development in the womb, our birth story, and our early environments all play a critical role in this complex system. So many of the movements you see an infant display for short periods of time are indications of a specific reflex doing it’s very important job in building their brain and connection to their body. Most of these reflexes have done the bulk of their work by the time a child is 5 or 6 years old. But no matter the path of development, the traces of these reflexes remain with us for the rest of our lives. In fact stress, trauma (physical or otherwise), and accidents can all make a reflex that was once complete and dormant wake back up. Every human has a reflex that has been activated outside of it’s normal path. This can lead to heightened mental health problems, postural issues, worsened dyslexia, communication issues, focus issues and so much more. While infants and children are frequently the most common category to receive reflex work, it is work that we all need to feel like our best selves.

    Reflex integration work is similar to a gentle bodywork session. You begin by filling out essential paperwork that gives me a framework to what your life experience has been. We then talk through specific issues (no matter how obscure) and then go about learning primitive movements chosen to help with those reflexes that are having an impact on your experience. Often these movements are quite peaceful and soothing, like a baby being lulled to sleep by a trusted adult. But sometimes it is necessary to stir things up in order to determine what is beneath. Reflex work is for everyone, and everyone’s experience is unique and impacted by these neural patterns that make us the humans that we are.

How you’ll feel

seen - respected - whole

FAQs

What is your massage and bodywork like?

I aim for every session you book with me to feel perfectly tailored to who you are on that day. I always begin a session with a conversation. Sometimes it only lasts a few moments and other times you may need several minutes to unburden yourself. Once you are on my table my hope is that you have a meditative and empowering experience. My philosophy is one of gentleness and patience. I leave my ego outside so you are the boss, if you feel pain or discomfort it’s my job to change my approach to make you comfortable. I offer such a wide variety of modalities so that we can create a custom blend just for you and just for that day. I hope you leave feeling at peace, refreshed, and balanced for the days to come.

Who do you work with?

I really do work from birth to death. My youngest clients are hours old and my oldest clients are close to 100 at times. I specialize in working with marginalized communities, in the hopes that I can fill gaps as a member of “found family.” I also love working with artists and healers of all kinds. Actors, dancers, musicians, and mixed media artists often come to my table. In those sessions we may set the goal of breaking into a new creative mindset, or help clear the body of trauma created and held in the body during repeated performances of painful aspects of the human experience. The body doesn’t know the difference between the traumatic events of your own life and those you may go through on stage or screen or canvas. I’m here to validate those experiences and help you release what no longer serves you.

What exactly is reflex integration, and how could it impact me?

Have you ever looked at an infant and wondered why when they are scared they always fling their arms and legs out? Or how about why a child prefers certain sleeping positions, or for the matter of fact why you sleep in the position you do? So much of who we are is based in the development of our reflexes.

My work with reflexes comes through RMTi (Rhythmic Movement Training International) which is based on the work of Swedish specialist Kerstin Linde who studied the natural movements: before birth, the first six months after birth, as they get up on their hands and knees, and through the stages of learning to walk.

Each reflex has a specific journey it must follow at a precise time. It’s path must emerge, develop, peak, and subside into dormancy. An infinite number of reasons can disrupt this path. Working with a trained reflex consultant helps you or your child optimize all areas of living. I use scientifically chosen gentle rhythmic movements designed to support a reflex through it’s path. These movements allow a reflex to integrate which supports whole brain health, reduces stress, and eliminates blocks to skill building. Reflex integration work is for any age, ability level, or phase of life.

What could you offer my neurodivergent child?

Our society isn’t designed to accommodate the neurodiverse or disabled communities. My first aim is to give your child a friendship where they feel safe to unmask and be themselves! Have your children’s teachers ever told you at pick up what a great day your kid had and then as soon as you get home they have a huge meltdown? That’s called restraint collapse, and it is so challenging as a parent or caregiver to have to love your child through that on a regular basis. Sometimes it’s as simple as me sharing that burden. I hope to also teach your child to advocate for themselves, engage them in their interests, widen their perspectives, coach them through challenging environments, and help them self reflect on what their own goals are so that we can work to meet them together. This may mean I accompany them outside of the home, or advocate on their behalf behind the scenes with other adults in their life.

Why would my elder need you if they live with me or in a care facility?

I believe it is always helpful to have a wide selection of community members to help you face down the challenges that come with aging. Many care facilities are staffed with loving and caring professionals, but they are often stretched too thin and you or your loved one may end up spending a lot of time alone. The same is often true if you or your loved one is in a multi-generational family home. Other family members need to go to work or to school. It’s a rare privilege to have someone available 24/7. I aim to be there to help you and your family fill the gaps. Maybe that simply means a companion just a few hours a week, or maybe it means taking full days to help with cooking/cleaning/phone calls/emails/bills. There is no one size fits all to elder-care. It must be based on their overall health, current environment, and most pressing challenges. I have experience working with those with severe mobility issues, memory care needs, amputations, and innumerable chronic health conditions.

What exactly is holistic death-care?

Preparedness is key! We aren’t guaranteed a tomorrow. And all too often death is a taboo subject…until it isn’t. Have you ever been faced with a ‘sudden’ or ‘young’ death and you realized you didn’t know what they wanted? Some of the most beneficial work I can provide is educating you on what death can look like and helping you and your loved ones have the conversation around what you want your death to look like. This means that when I do receive a call to help someone through the ‘end’ we don’t have to play a guessing game. You may need as little as a one hour session to achieve this, and you may need several sessions in order to feel more confident and at peace with death and dying.